ADVICE TO LADIES ESPECIALLY THOSE IN THEIR TWENTIES

* Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured... lady... So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife category... . * Never let the sweet talks of guys deceive you, most times they just want to go between your legs and run off thereafter. . *Remove the mentality from your mind that guys will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the less toasters you will have. . *Playing 'too' hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, Nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies 'looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE'. . *Never extort things from a guy you don't love, guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total 'PAID' STRANGERS....BE CAREFUL. . *Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex. A man will also return to his wife who sex starve him for years once he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body. . *If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him, don't complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer... . * Don't be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate with. . *A guy always taking you to the SILVER BED, FAST FOOD (pizza in or galitos), MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTRE / NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn't care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his 'SOCIAL MATE' and nothing else.... . *If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his "executive house help". . *If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you so wise up.

10 TIPS FOR A YOUTH TO BE SUCCESSFUL

1. Do not depend on your parents'wealth. Someone may come tomorrow to dupe you and you will lose everything. Learn to do things on your own. 2. God has given everyone a talent. Pray about yours, discover it, and work on it. Then it will work out for you. 3. Do not just sit down and ping, tweet, facebook while others are making money with their talents. Be wise for once, the owners of these social networks are using us to make money. 4. It is good to appreciate good things, but learn to appreciate it wisely and stop arguing unnecessarily about football and players. When will people argue about you also? Think about it! 5. Don't feel like a Don for sleeping with too many ladies, they won't make your destiny fulfilled as some are filled with bad luck. 6. Learn to get a lady close to you to be successful as they say: without a woman, a man cannot be successful. 7. Learn to solve problem on your own, it is a good way of making it in life. Don't copy others, tap little from them and modify it. 8.Stop drinking and smoking too much as it may damage your life too much. Do it socially. 9. Learn to have a good heart, help people around you if you have the power as they'll use their heart to bless you. 10. Think about impossible things,try to make it possible. Bigger people started from somewhere. Do remain blessed and stay motivated!!

NICE MOTIVATING STORY

.. Once upon a time,thr was a gal who had 4 boyfriends..... She loved d 4th boyfrnd the most and adorned him wit rich robes and treatd him to d finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best....... She also loved d 3rd boyfrnd very much and was always showing him off to neighbouring kingdoms. Howeva,she feared dat one day he would leave her 4 anoda........ She also loved her 2nd boyfrnd. He was her confidant and was always kind,considerate and patient wit her. Wheneva d gal faced a problem,she could confide in him,and he would help her get thru d difficult times........ The gal's 1st boyfrnd was a very loyal partner and had made great contributns in maintainin her wealth and kingdom. Howeva,she did nt love d 1st boyfrnd,although he loved her deeply,she hardly took notice of him.......... One day,d gal fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thot of her luxurious life and wondered, "I now have 4 boyfrnds wit me,but wen i die,will i be alone?"...... Thus,she askd d 4th boyfrnd, "I loved u d most,endowed u wit d finest clothin and showered great care ova u. Now dat im dyin,will u follow me and kip me company? No way! replied d 4th boyfrnd,and he walked away without anoda word.... His ansa cut like a sharp knife rite into her heart..... The sad gal then askd d 3rd boyfrd " I loved u all my life. Now dat im dyin,will u follow me and kip me company?" NO! replied d frd boyfrnd. Life is too good! Wen u die,i'm going to marry sumone else! Her heart sank and turned cold......... She then askd d 2nd boyfrnd," I have always turned to u 4 help and u've always been thr 4 me. When i die,will u follow me and keep me company?".. I'm sorry,i cant help u out dis time!,replied d 2nd boyfrnd. At d very most,i can only walk wit u to ur grave....... His ansa struck her like a bolt of lightning and d gal was devastated.... Then a voice called out: " I'll go wit u. I'll follow u no mata whr u go".. The gal looked up and thr was her 1st boyfrnd. He was very skinny as he suffered 4rm malnutritn and neglect.... Greatly grieved,d gal said " I shld av taken much beta care of u when i had d chance!"................... Do u knw dat of a truth,we all av 4 boyfrnds in our lives..... Ur 4th boyfrnd is ur BODY. No mata hw much time and effort u lavish in making it luk gd,it will leave u wen u die.... Ur 3rd boyfrnd is ur POSSESSION,STATUS AND WEALTH..Wen u die,it will all go to others...... Ur 2nd boyfrnd is ur FAMILY AND FRIENDS.... No mata hw much they have been there 4 u,the farther they can stay by u is up to ur grave...... And ur 1st boyfrnd is ur SPIRIT..Often neglected in pursuit of wealth,power and pleasure of d world... Howeva,ur spirit is d only thing dat wil follow u whereva u go.... CULTIVATE,STRENGTHEN AND CHERISH IT NOW, FOR IT IS THE ONLY PART OF U DAT WILL FOLLOW YOU TO THE THRONE OF GOD AND CONTINUE WIT U THRUOUT ETERNITY...

LIFE GOES ON

Life, generally is full of ups and down. You might see one down 2day and tomorrow he's up. Such is life! And we must not allow those things to weigh us down. When faced with difficulties on the journey of life,never look at the difficulties as the end of life,instead we must look beyond the difficulties and u will see that in that difficulty, there is an opportunity. When defeat comes,accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound,rebuild those plans and set sail once more toward your coveted goal. Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that someything inside them was superior to circumstances. The first important step in weathering failure or difficult situation is learning not to personalize it-making sure you know that your failure or difficulty does not make you a failure. Do not allow mistakes you make, stops you from moving on because MISTAKES are:- M- Messages that give you feedback about life. I- Interruptions that should cause us to reflect and think. S- Signposts that direct us to the right path. T- Tests that push us toward greater maturity. A- Awakenings that keep us in the game mentally. K- Keys that we can use to unlock the next door of opportunity. E- Explorations that let us journey where we've never been before. S- Statements about our developments and progress. WHEN THERE IS LIFE, THERE IS HOPE

TAKE NOTE

One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big advice on the door on which it was written:

"Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym".

In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself.

The excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room.

The more people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up. Everyone thought: "Who is this guy who was hindering my progress? Well, at least he died!".

One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul.

There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself.

There was also a sign next to the mirror that said:

"There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth: it is YOU.

You are the only person who can revolutionize your life. You are the only person who can influence your happiness, your realization and your success. You are the only person who can help yourself.

Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your partner changes, when your company changes. Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs, when you realize that you are the only one responsible for your life.

"The most important relationship you can have, is the one you have with yourself"

Examine yourself, watch yourself. Don't be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities­­­ and losses: be a winner, build yourself and your reality.

The world is like a mirror: it gives back to anyone the reflection of the thoughts in which one has strongly believed.

The world and your reality are like mirrors laying in coffins, which show to any individual, the death of his divine capability to imagine and create his happiness and his success.
It's the way you face Life that makes the difference

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A*T*T*E*N*T*I*O­*N!

"Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with N86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every kobo, of course?

Each of us has such a bank. its name is time. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a purpose. It carries over no balance. it allows no overdraft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day. If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against "tomorrow".

You must live in the present on today's deposits. invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success. The clock is running. Make the most of today."

STORY OF A WOODCUTTER

Once upon a time, a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant and he got it. The pay was really good and so was the work condition. For those reasons, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.

His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he supposed to work.
The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees.
“Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”
Very motivated by the boss words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only bring 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only bring 10 trees. Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.

“I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.
“When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.
“Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”

Reflection:
Our lives are like that. We sometimes get so busy that we don’t take time to sharpen the “axe”. In today’s world, it seems that everyone is busier than ever, but less happy that ever.
Why is that? Could it be that we have forgotten how to stay “sharp”? There’s nothing wrong with activity and hard work. But we should not get so busy that we neglect the truly important things in life, like our personal life, taking time to get close to our Creator, giving more time for our family, taking time to read etc.
We all need time to relax, to think and meditate, to learn and grow. If we don’t take the time to sharpen the “axe”, we will become dull and lose our effectiveness

A Yoruba Poem- Ise Logun Ise (Work is the antidote for poverty

Ise Logun ise [Work is the antidote for poverty]
... Mura si se re, ore mi [Work hard and work smart, my friend]
Ise la fi ndeni giga [Hard and smart work brings success]
Bi a ko ba reni fehin ti [When there is no one to rely on]
Bi ole la ri [Its like we are lazy]
Bi a ko ba reni gbekele, [When there is no one to trust]
A te ra mo se ni. [We focus more on our work]
Iya re le lowo lowoh [Your mother might be rich]
Baba re le lesin lekan [Your father might own a thousand and one horses]
Ti o ba gbojule won [If you rely on them]
O te tan ni mo so fun o [In truth, you might be on sinking ground]

Apa lara igupa ni ye kan [families are like the arm, while extended family are like the elbow]
B'aiye ba fe o loni [If you are loved by the world today]
Ti o ba lowo lowo, won a tun fe o lola [If you are still rich, they will love you tomorrow as well]
Abi ko wa nipo atata [If you have an esteemed position]
Aiye a ye o si terin terin [You will be honored with "fake"laughter]
Je ki o deni ti ra ngo [If you unfortunately loose your money or position]
Ko ri bi won ti nyin mu si o [They'll turn their back on you]

Iya mbe fomo ti ko gbon [There is suffering for the foolish child]
Ekun mbe fomo ti nsare kiri [and there is sorrow for the child that have no plan or vision]
Mafowuro sere ore mi [Don't waste your formative years, my friend]
Mura sise ojo nlo. [work hard and plan well now, because time waits for no one

3 LIFE RULES

1. Never treat badly a stranger whom you have met for the first time. You dont know where  you will meet that person the second time..


2. Never use strong and irritating words when you re having a quarrel and sometimes a breakup with someone. You never know one time you will need his/her aid, and you will feel guilty of approaching him/her.


3.  Never ever show someone that you hate him/her, even though you may feel you do. He/she will one time play a great thing in your life and you will  feel ashamed even to tell them 'thank you' after all too much hatred adds nothing to you but only self less.

NOTICE NOTICE NOTICE

USMANU DANFODIYO UNIVERSITY, SOKOTO

(Office of the Registrar)

 

SCREENING EXERCISE FOR 2013/2014 ADMISSIONS

 

INTRODUCTION:

 

This is to invite all candidates (UTME and DIRECT ENTRY) who chose the Usmanu

Danfodiyo University, Sokoto, as their first choice Most Preferred and/or second choice Most Preferred for the 2013/2014 admissions to register on-line for a screening  exercise scheduled to hold from Wednesday, 28th

August to Friday, 30th

August, 2013, at

8:00 a.m. daily.

 

The UTME applicants must have scored

180 and

above

in the 2013 Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination. Direct

Entry candidates must have at least

lower credit at Diploma and a

minimum of six (6) points at NCE/IJMB.

 

more details www.udusok.edu.ng